Sexuality can feel like a BIG topic and is often brought up with whispers and “side eyes” even though everyone is aware of its presence in our lives, in our cultures and in our society. In my personal and professional experience I have found that curiosity is a gateway to healing. As a sex positive therapist… desire, pleasure, play, eroticism all come from a place of curiosity. Often times, especially as we grow into adulthood, our sense of exploration and curiosity is muddled by social norms, obligations, stress, grief, trauma, illness, shame… shall I continue?
Healthy sexuality is not just about sex, it is an integral part of how we interact with ourselves and the world around us. Wellness is a language we speak to ourselves. Sometimes that language gets lost in translation over the course of our lives. Chances are, you are looking for support around finding your authentic voice, understanding your needs better or maybe just simply trying to better understand your “wiring.” If this sounds like you, you’re not alone. Helping you find alignment within yourself can be tricky but it’s possible.